5 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Planning My Wedding

December 1, 2023

Planning a wedding is a beautiful–albeit sometimes stressful–journey. As someone who has been through the process, I’ve had my share of “I wish I knew that before” moments. In this blog post, I’ll share five things I wish I knew when I was planning my wedding to help you navigate your own wedding planning journey with more confidence and ease.


5 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Planning My Wedding

1. Start Early and Stay Organized

One of the first things I wish I knew was the importance of starting the planning process as early as possible. Weddings involve many moving parts, and the more time you have to coordinate everything, the smoother the process will be. Start with a comprehensive checklist, a wedding planning binder, or digital tools to stay organized. It’s incredible how quickly the to-do list can grow, and having a system to keep track of everything will help alleviate stress.

2. Budget Wisely and Stick to It

Setting a realistic budget is crucial. Before diving into wedding planning, determine how much you’re willing to spend on each aspect of your wedding. I wish I knew that unexpected expenses can add up quickly, so having a contingency fund is a great idea. The key is to stick to your budget as closely as possible and avoid overspending on non-essential items.

3. Seek and Accept Help

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, and I wish I had known the value of seeking help. Friends and family can provide support, whether through advice, DIY projects, or simply lending a hand. Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks, as this can relieve stress and make the process more enjoyable. Remember, people who love you want to be a part of your special day in any way they can.

4. Prioritize What Truly Matters

It’s easy to get caught up in the details and feel pressure to create a Pinterest-perfect wedding. I wish I had realized earlier that it’s essential to prioritize what truly matters to you and your partner. Focus on the aspects of your wedding that hold the most significance, such as the ceremony, the vows, and the love you share. All the extra details are nice, but they shouldn’t overshadow the essence of the day.

5. Don’t Forget to Enjoy the Journey

Amid the planning, I wish I knew how important it is to enjoy the journey. Wedding planning is a significant part of the experience, and it’s an opportunity to bond with your partner. Take time to savor the moments, the decisions, and the anticipation. Don’t let the stress and minutiae overshadow the joy of preparing to celebrate your love.

Planning a wedding is a unique and personal journey, and learning from those who’ve been through it can be incredibly valuable. By starting early, staying organized, budgeting wisely, seeking help, prioritizing what matters, and enjoying the journey, you can ensure that your wedding planning experience is as joyful and memorable as the big day itself.